Marriage Therapy

Intense feelings and expectations at the beginning are not enough for a happy marriage. The personal talents, skills and personalities of the couple are important factors that will help the marriage to last. Such as sensitivity, loyalty, responsibility, fulfillment of promises, generosity, sharing, respectfulness. Cooperation, compromise, joint decision-making, mutual support and understanding, and tolerance towards each other's mistakes and faults are also very important for a harmonious relationship.

Another area where spousal sharing is necessary is leisure activities. There are different activities that each spouse may want to do in their free time. Participating in some of these together means that they share the fun as well as the responsibilities. They will get to know each other better and the emotional bond between them will be strengthened.

For example, if a spouse who likes fishing does not share this hobby with his/her spouse because he/she does not like it, he/she should not force his/her spouse to participate; on the other hand, his/her spouse should not prevent him/her from doing so. Moreover, he/she should show that he/she supports this activity by going fishing together occasionally, sitting next to his/her spouse, talking together, sharing his/her thoughts about the fish, the fishing rod, and listening to him/her.

However, this does not mean that spouses should be together all the time. Each partner should have time to spend independently.

There are two important savings in human life.

1. Mate selection

2. Choice of profession

Making the right decision in these two vital decisions can make a person happy or unhappy.

• Finding the right person in marriage

• What meaning she gives and attributes to marriage

• What she expects from marriage

These factors shape and guide the nature of marriage.

Marriage is a common project. Spouses should build marriage on common expectations and make it a common project. Otherwise, if both try to be the sole captain of the ship, the marriage will end.

Whether the expectations are realistic and whether the expectations of the man and the woman match with each other, harmony in marriage is ensured through communication. Couples who integrate emotional and social communication into their marriages in a healthy way will have the key to a happier life with each other in the long run.

SOLUTION AND CONSULTANCY:

If you are aware that something is missing in your marriage, or if you believe that the feeling and trust you had when you started your marriage is missing, then you need the help of a professional expert in your marriage. Because it is in your power to save the problem while it is still small and before the marriage is jeopardized.

The Secret of Happiness in Marriage is Hidden in Empathy.

Empathy means putting yourself in the other person's shoes and trying to understand their feelings. Empathy training in marriage and family therapies is of great importance for spouses to understand each other. During therapy, spouses are taught to understand each other better. When misunderstandings and communication breakdowns that lead to unnecessary conflicts and disagreements are eliminated, many marriages can be saved from going before a judge.

The Existing Problem is Overcome with Spousal Support.

Marriage and family counseling, in cases where only one of the family members has significant psychological problems (such as depression, panic attacks, uncontrolled excitement, behavioral disorders, etc.), treats the party with the problem individually, while guiding the other spouse to help eliminate the problem. In a sense, it teaches them how to cope with their partner's problem. While teaching both spouses how to communicate in a healthy way, it helps to save a home that is about to collapse.

Remember, if you and your spouse have problems of harmony and communication in your marriage that you cannot overcome together, consulting an impartial family counselor may be the most important step you can take for a solution.