Get Moving and Walk to Your Dreams: A Manifesto for Success and Development

"Move it, move it, move it..."

To move, the whole point is to internalize this word. If you move, you move. Come on, move, but a little to the right, but a little to the left, just move. Moving is good. It is the mother of movement. It all started with moving. When you move, it's obvious that you'll run. Consider the baby. First it wiggles left and right, rolls like a spinning top, falls, gets up, but tries again, tries again, tries again, tries again, and finally walks and runs. So you too will first move and bump left and right so that you can develop and your visions can be formed.  The one who moves walks.

You'll walk, where? Wherever your dreams take you. At worst, your muscles will develop, you will get stronger, you will see new people, new places. New places will expand your vision and you will become a citizen of the world. What happens? At worst, you will get to know people like you, people who are like you, people who are the opposite of you, you will listen to new lives from the mouths of real people, not your fictions, and you will set sail for hope. So you grow and develop at the same time. Whether you walk with your steps, or by reading, or by loving, or by producing, or by inventing something. As long as you walk. Don't stop. Even the flower does not stop as it is in the pot, it grows. If even a tree can program itself to grow and develop, why shouldn't human beings research and develop themselves for the better and different? If the tree does not bear fruit, he will never see that the dry tree will yield fruits that taste good. There is a beautiful fruit in every human being. As long as he/she believes that it will bear fruit, is patient and clings to his/her dreams.

It doesn't matter how fast you walk, just walk sometimes fast and sometimes slow. Just walk. Observe the development of many creatures around you.  You will see that movement underlies every development. Does the flower in the pot always get sun (winter, fall, humidity...)? But does it always get enough water, the most precious source of life? Unfortunately, no. Does the cat or dog in your house always get enough and regular love and attention from you, even though it is not on the street and you are an animal friend? Not to mention the cats and dogs on the street. They continue to grow, develop, love, protect themselves, get stronger, get curious.

What about your mother, your father, your friends, analyze them; have they always had wonderful lives?  And what about you, my friend, the hero of my article, have you come to this day by spending years full of wonderful moments? Weren't there times when you were ashamed, embarrassed, upset, crying, angry, in love, chasing your passions, depressed and alone with your disappointments?  Do you remember one time when you were a child, very young, angry and irritable? Remember who, the great people who brought you into the world, your parents... Of course you loved them, but how sad you were. Why can you, who experienced and struggled with these things as a child, be so cruel to yourself now that you are older?

Sometimes there are moments when you feel overwhelmed and you say, "Enough, come one at a time, these problems always find me. What an unfortunate person I am, I am overwhelmed, yeetteeerrrrrr". Most of the time only you can hear this cry. That's when you lose interest in many things, even the things you do best seem meaningless and foreign. That is the moment when you break away from your dreams. You didn't actually get the result you wanted because of the behavior model you exhibited towards the event or the person at that moment. Not because of bad luck or fate. When you change your behavior, you will see that the result you get is in line with your goals. Beating yourself up because of your behavior is like being angry at a flea and burning down the house. Before you judge yourself, tell yourself the following: "I am bigger than a behavior. I am the real one and I have more to do."

The word "not happening" applies to that behavior. So yes, it's not happening, that's true. There is something that is not happening, something that is not right, and you are worn out financially and emotionally. That's absolutely true.  Where is the problem or somewhere else? The problem is right here. It is not you that is wrong, it is your reaction, your model of behavior. Which commander has won all the battles with a single tactic, which boss has won all the tenders with the same tactic, which child has been able to get his parents to do what he thinks with a single tactic. Think that the problem may not be with you or your dreams, but with your similar behavior models.

You will fall, and you should fall. Falling down, making a mistake is actually a beautiful thing. Falling down is a break for yourself. Because when you make a mistake or fall, you choose to try new ways. Also, making mistakes prevents the people around you from seeing you as perfect and judging you for the smallest mistake. Making mistakes sometimes leads to good things. I wish we could experience failures right after great successes so that we don't get lifted up or our ego doesn't get inflated.

Which of today's technologies, science, moral relations, rules of law, environmental and animal sensitivity would have reached this civilized level without mistakes and mistakes? What you give up because you are afraid of making a mistake or making a mistake when there are so many big mistakes around you is actually your one-time use of your whole life.

Of course we should make mistakes. We should even say, "I haven't made mistakes for a long time, is there something wrong with me?" When we say that, we declare peace with our mistakes, just like we declare peace with the countries we fought with years ago and then go and visit them as tourists and buy their goods and sell them what we produce. By making peace with our mistakes, we learned to achieve our dreams. That's how our story began.

"Move, move, move, move, move, move..."

In this long life between birth and death, do you have the courage to share your dreams with us or will you take them to the cemetery, the biggest, most precious and calmest place in the world. If those cemeteries had a language, the first thing they would probably say is. "Oh, if only I had more time, I could have done this." There is a disappointment in all those who lie there. You still have time today not to say if only.

500 hospitalized people aged 70+ were interviewed: Biggest regret of their lives? Not what they did, but what they didn't do, or what they couldn't do out of fear but wanted to do.

No matter how old you are, never let this happen. Don't let someone else's opinion about you be your truth. You really don't allow someone else's words to come out of your mouth and put you in someone else's category. You are not a number or a statistic.

"Move it, move it, move it, move it, oh my little one, move it..."

Remember who was there in your most intimate moment, in your happiest moment, when your jaw hit the floor and you did it when they said you couldn't. And who was there with you when you fell down? I'm not talking about your friends, I mean not the ones who consoled you, but who was there with you to live that moment with you second by second? Let me tell you, you and your dreams. Hug your dreams.

Every morning when you wake up you have to spend your time on your dreams.

Sometimes you will be at the point of giving up, sometimes you will even feel like a person who can't stop making the same mistakes, sometimes you will be ostracized, sometimes they won't understand you, sometimes they will even drop their eyes and look at you strangely, and then you will think that you are alone and you will be sad, but in fact you will see that you are with the most precious thing. Who is it? Your self who has been with you since birth. That self that has been with you since birth will wink at you.

A melody will come out of your mouth, "Move, move, move, move, oh my coy one, move..." By the way, I recommend listening to the song that inspired this article. Listen to the version from the "Play for Nature" video.

You will not rely too much on the sentences of the people around you, "Look, if you do this, this will happen." If he could have succeeded, he would have succeeded, because this sentence is his. If there are fears and limitations in the sentences, what a good approach to be able to say "no thanks". Think about the fact that we are already in this situation because we don't say this sentence. Isn't this often the beginning of smoking addiction or obesity? "No, thanks, I'll pass," do you think we would have become so addicted?

"Here, smoke one, you'll be fine", "It's good for you", "It goes so well with this", "It really tastes good with this", "I really pass out after eating this...", "What a nice taste". Many addictions can start with these sentences. But now you can say no thank you.

Take a deep breath and look at the person who says and does these things and ask yourself "do you really want to be like that"? Whatever your answer is, move accordingly.

When many people make mistakes, they look for a companion so that they don't feel alone in their mistakes. This is why many people try to pass off many mistakes not as 'mistakes' but as wishes, desires, lifestyles, bad luck, environmental factors. You, be alone with your mistakes and realize that they are not your mistakes but your strategies at that moment.  Because you are the one who made that mistake and you are the one who has achieved many successes up to that moment.

It is your life struggle that makes you who you are, not success. The biggest thing that makes successful people is forgetting past failures.

Your mind is a battle arena. But remember that mind is yours. So if you want to win the battle, you can win.

You're only as big as your dreams, only as valuable as your dreams. Now you have to make a decision. The best you can do (fruit) is yet to come. Either give yourself a chance and work to bear that fruit or...

Either forget this or start valuing yourself a little more. Don't you and your dreams have as much value as others? Think of the colorful fruits that come out of a dry tree.

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